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Truelly. Think about it, how you act towards others - your family, your friends, your lover. Think how the words can hurt - lie or true. Don't kill the small spark that keeps the other alive. Try to make it grow larger with honesty and love - you kill it with empty promises, hollow lies and mental torture.

Try not to say "I love you", if you don't really mean it. You can always love many people but you can only one person truely by heart - in a way lovers do, others you don't/can't love in the way you love the one person. Sometimes your love for two might hurt the other and make him/her jealous, sad and make her/him feel only a subtitute - a replacement. It tears a heart to peaces.
Try not to promise to understand the other when suddenly you just get angry to the person, not understanding his/her point, her/his reasons. Not seeing that she's/he's trying her/his best and your anger and bad words only hurt. Very much.
Try not to say "I'm your friend, no matter what", when suddenly you might turn your back at her/him without saying anything or without a reason. That too tears a person apart mentaly.

It hurts, when people lies with words that are suppose to comfort you and give you a reason to carry on, live and see what the world want's to offer.

I do this too. I try to think what I do, what I think and what I say. Sometimes I go wrong but sometimes nothing is enough for the other. So... sometimes it feels hopeless to even try. But still I want to try and do my best, but sometimes I only need help from the other people. Yeah.