Forgive and forget. ThatÂ’s what they say. ItÂ’s good advice, but itÂ’s not very practical. When someone hurts us, we want to hurt them back. When someone wrongs us, we want to be right. Without forgiveness, old scores are never settledÂ… old wounds never heal. And the most we can hope for, is that one day weÂ’ll be lucky enough to forget.