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Men get smarter as they age. While a younger man might think being honest is always the best policy, he quickly learns that some things are best kept secret the first time he confesses to his girlfriend that yes, he was watching that pretty young thing in the bikini wash her car.


Although men who tell too many lies and keep too many secrets risk souring a relationship from lack of trust, some of the more innocuous lies are told and secrets are kept to keep the peace. That is the kind of secret Wenger is revealing. And ladies, some of these secrets will melt your heart and make you so happy you married the man you did.

Eleven secrets most men keep, including your husband:

1. Yes, he falls in lust 10 times a day -- but it doesn't mean he wants to leave you.

2. He actually does play golf to get away from you.

3. He is unnerved by the notion of commitment, even after he has made one to you.

4. Earning money makes him feel important

5. Though he often protests, he actually enjoys fixing things around the house.

6. He likes it when you mother him, but he's terrified that you'll become your mother.

7. Every year he loves you more.

8. He really doesn't understand what you're talking about when you discuss "issues" in your relationship. It makes no sense at all to him -- even though he will nod in agreement and apparent understanding.

9. He is terrified when you drive.

10. He'll always wish he was 25 again.

11. Give him an inch and he'll give you a lifetime. Translation: Let him be a dumb guy and play poker with his buddies or go on vacation alone, and he'll love you forever for that.

"And that's the truth"

Name Four Things That You Wish You Had:money love happiness faith

Name Four Scents You Love:burberry weekend:dkny be delicious:cartier:diamonds

Name Four Things You Did Today:sleep watch tv use phone read

What is your current relationship status? single

What is your sexual orientation? str8

What sort of people do you like, as far as what their interests are in life? people who dont have their heads up theri asses

What physical traits do you look for in a potential interest? smile

What kind of fashion-sense attracts you? a good one

What kind of hair style do you find attractive on a potential mate? depends

What is the usual age range you look at? 22-26

What traits turn you off? arrogancy ...

Do you prefer to date various people or do you pretty much fall into monogamous relationships quickly? monogamous

Are you afraid to ask people out on dates? yes

If you're single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship? kinda

What are the positive points about being single? none

What are the negative points about being single? sleeping alone =(

When single, do you often find yourself longing for companionship? yes

How well do you handle rejection? not very well

Do you miss your last sweetie? some of the good things but he wasnt worth my love

Do you think it's better to look for love or let it find you? i dunno

What's the longest relationship you've ever been in? 8 years

The shortest? 1 year

Do you think couples should spend a very large amount of time together or space things out a tad? depends

Have you ever found yourself worrying about commitment? no

When involved with a person, do you try to think about the here and now or do you often think of the future?

How do you prefer to handle disagreements? resolve them
How do you feel when your mate is mad at you and won't tell you why? mad

Do you have a crush right now? Do they know? yes yes

What's the longest period of time you've ever had a crush? umm not too long

Have you ever confessed your feelings to a crush?no

Do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush?no

Has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you? yes

How do you feel about long-distance relationships? they work if you work em

Have you ever pined for someone when you're not around them? yes

Would you get involved with someone if they had a child already? yes

What would you do if you got pregnant while in a relationship? keep it
Would you get involved with someone if they were previously married? yes

How big of an issue is religion to your compatibility? none

How big of an issue to you is your mate's ethnicity? none

In a potential mate, how important is intelligence to you? .a little importatn .. depending on how you define intelligence

In a potential mate, how important is a sense of humor to you? pretty important

What makes your heart flutter and brings a big cheesy smile to your face? things....

What was your first kiss like? too young to remember

What part of a person's body do you find most attractive? face or stomach

What's the first thing you look at when you look at someone you're attracted to? shoes

How important are the looks of a mate's face to you? kinda

How important are the looks of a mate's body to you? kinda

When you kiss someone for the first time, is it usually you who initiates it or the other? him


Have you ever casually made out with someone who you weren't seriously involved with? yes


Were you single at the time? yes

What are your ticklish areas? no comment

What do you most like about making out? i dunno

Are you a virgin? no

If not, would you consider your first time to have been a good one?ehhh

How old were you when you lost your virginity?13

Have you ever had sex with someone you loved? yes

Have you ever turned down an offer for sex? yes

How much do you think sex changes a relationship? it does a little .. only if u let it

On a scale from 1 to 10 [10 being the highest] how would you rate your sexual attractiveness? 7


How do you feel about casual sex? not good

Would you stay with a lover if the love stopped but the sex was still enjoyable? no

Would you stay with a lover if the sex stopped/got boring but there was still love? yes

Do you believe in love? barely

Do you believe in love at first sight? no

Has someone ever told you they loved you? yes

Have you ever told someone you loved them and meant it? yes

Have you ever told someone you loved them and not meant it? no

Are you a monogamous person or do you believe in open-ended relationships? monogamous


How do you feel about marriage? sacred
If you're currently not married, do you foresee yourself ever tying the knot? yes


Do you plan on having children someday? yes
Have you ever had your heart broken? yes too often


Have you ever been dumped? no

Have you ever dumped someone? yes

Have you ever mutually broken up with someone? no

Has a romantic companion ever made you cry?yes too often
Have you ever made a romantic companion cry? i think so

Have you ever had an emotional pain so bad it made you sick or physically hurt? yes rt now

Have you ever been unfaithful? no

Have you ever been cheated on? story of my life

Have you ever learned an important lesson as a result of a break up? yes

Have you ever gotten back together with someone after breaking up?yes

Did it work? no

Do you believe there's hope for people after they get back together or do you think the same problems that caused the initial break up will resurface? unless the reason is solved then it wont get better

Have you ever broken up with someone and remained friends afterward? no

Have you ever broken up with someone and become bitter enemies? yes
If so, did you ever made amends? no

Have you ever broken up with someone and lost touch? no
Have you ever gotten back in touch with an old flame after a time of more than 3 months of no communication? no

Were you afraid to do so?

Do you ever check up on old flames without actually contacting them? yes

If you've ever lost touch or went sour with someone you loved, how did it make you feel? depends on the situation

Have you ever longed to get back together with someone?no

Happy Thanksgiving ! Turkey day turkey day !!!

obie trice show canceled .. what a bitch !

do you ever feel like you have no one in this world to truly open up to about everything ...
ive never trusted anyone in this world , i mean truly trusted and for a while i thought i did
but as much as i try to trust him i just keep having things that make me differ .. this is gonna be just whining to him . he wants to be in my life but he does to things to make me want him out.. and
yes this is about a little thing but its the little things that count. ijust feel so compltely and utterly alone..and if i talk to him about it he tells me what i want to hear at that moment .. and then changes again .. hed completly deny it but i see it and i cant change it ..

=( bad news =(

i dont know what i do wrong i really dont.....what am i fighting for .. weekend loneliness calls..... i just wish i had someone to talk to =(

peace to this young warrior without the sound of guns

or this one .. cant decide her name shall be....TArja Halonen

or this one ... his name shall be.....hotdog